A life built on purpose.
Stories worth telling.
I'm a Marine Corps veteran, a husband to Darling, and a father of three teenage daughters — Ashleigh, Haleigh, and Kayleigh — writing from the Carolina Piedmont.
I served nine years as an aircraft electrical and flight control systems technician, deployed to Japan, Afghanistan, and the Pacific aboard the USS Makin Island, and made sergeant before coming home to North Carolina to be present for my mother and my children. The discipline of staying is the thread that runs through everything I've done since.
Today I co-own Luna Creative Marketing with my wife, build things with my hands when I can, and write about a life lived in full — service, marriage, fatherhood, grief, recovery, and the slow practice of being present through all of it.
My mother died in my house. Four months after my first marriage ended, I met Darling. What I've learned about being a man who stays.
On turning down recruiting duty, leaving the Marine Corps, and choosing presence over advancement — repeatedly.
Two band kids, club volleyball, a marriage, a marketing company, and the operating system that keeps it all upright.
Three years of quality assurance work taught me more about attention, judgment, and the dignity of noticing than I expected.
A manifesto for being more than one thing — and the case for refusing to specialize your way out of a meaningful life.
New essays every other week. Field notes more often. No noise, no tracking, no spam — just writing from the Piedmont, delivered to your inbox.
A book-length essay collection on service, marriage, fatherhood, and the discipline of staying — drawn from nine years in the Marine Corps and what came after.
Working title: The Discipline of Staying.
Literary fiction set on the North Carolina coast. A first novel, taking its time.
An independent imprint inspired by Darling's Palma & Ink. For thoughtful nonfiction and overlooked Southern voices.
The newsletter is the front door. New essays every other week, field notes when something earns the telling, and the occasional update on the books I'm writing.